Discover the 7 early signs of pre-menopause that every woman over 40 should be aware of. Learn the symptoms, what they mean, and how to manage them naturally. Are you in your 40s and starting to feel “not quite yourself”?
You’re not alone — and you’re not imagining it.
What you’re experiencing could be the early signs of pre-menopause, the natural phase leading up to menopause where your hormones begin to shift.
Many women don’t realize they’re in pre-menopause because the symptoms can be subtle and sneak up gradually. But understanding these changes is the first step to feeling in control and confident again.
In this post, I’ll walk you through the 7 early signs of pre-menopause that I and many other women have experienced — plus what to do next.

- Irregular Periods
Your once-regular cycle may start acting unpredictable. You might skip a month or experience spotting between periods. This is often one of the first signs of pre-menopause as estrogen levels start to fluctuate.
- Hot Flashes & Night Sweats
Suddenly feel like someone turned on the heat — even in winter? These temperature surges are classic pre-menopausal symptoms caused by hormonal shifts affecting your body’s thermostat.
- Mood Swings or Irritability
One moment you’re laughing, the next you’re snapping or tearing up. Emotional ups and downs are common during this phase due to changing estrogen levels impacting brain chemicals like serotonin.
- Sleep Disturbances
Waking up at 2 a.m. for no reason? Trouble falling or staying asleep is a common frustration for women in their 40s, often made worse by night sweats or anxiety.
- Vaginal Dryness or Discomfort
Changes in estrogen affect your vaginal tissues, leading to dryness, irritation, or discomfort during intimacy — but you’re definitely not alone, and there are great natural solutions available.
💡 6. Decreased Libido
Many women experience a dip in sexual desire during pre-menopause. It’s not just about hormones — stress, fatigue, and emotional shifts all play a role too.
💡 7. Brain Fog or Forgetfulness
Feel like your memory is fuzzy or you’re less focused than usual? That mental cloudiness (a.k.a. pre-menopausal brain fog) is real and linked to hormone fluctuations.
What Should You Do If You Notice These Signs?
- Track your symptoms. Keep a journal or use an app to notice patterns.
- Talk to your doctor. Rule out other causes and confirm if you’re in pre-menopause.
- Support your body naturally through good nutrition, hydration, stress reduction, and key supplements.
Pre-menopause is not something to fear — it’s something to understand and manage. The more informed you are, the more empowered you feel.
Remember, you’re not alone, and you’re not losing yourself — you’re becoming a new version of you. And that version? She’s strong, wise, and confident.
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